“I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” – Mother Teresa
With the controversy of Chik-Fil-A and the boycotting, and many other circumstances that have come about as a result, I was most saddened and hurt by the outright harshness and bitterness that has come from within the Christian community regarding this whole situation. Some of these statements are directed at the Church, and in many places de-value the Word of God to a place under the cultural perspectives that are prevalent and popular today. Just in case you don’t realize, the Church is being persecuted and oppressed for the values it extols and loses out often because those that profess to be Christian have not adequately defended or lived out the Gospel truths in their own lives. The simple truth is this, the people within this Church will never be able to live up to this high calling due to inherent fallen-ness of man and our sin. So I mourn, because in one way Christians are called hypocrites for our poor living of God’s truth, and the other way is we are unable to speak our views because we are then considered ignorant/old-fashioned/hateful when we simply stand for the truths that we believe in. The reality is we are in a dark time and if one side is unable to speak its views without an immediate angry reaction, then is this true healthy dialogue that is happening? In many ways, I feel like folks are seeing the Church as this:
I want to make a point to state this: if you want to discuss my personal beliefs and views on this, then please feel free to meet with me in person to talk more about the subject. I am here to make this statement instead: Be a Part of the Solution rather than the Problem.
Recently, a sibling came to me complaining that our faith community does not pray enough. She shared how she didn’t see us praying enough and was frustrated and disappointed at our community. In the moment, I asked her this simple question: did you go to prayer meeting? What essentially she was saying was that she had not seen our faithfulness to pray as a body. Granted, she was right in some sense… our church struggles in praying together, but I knew that it was a bit unfair for her to make this assessment because I had never seen her at our meetings. Her response that followed my question was one of acknowledging that she had not attended. I replied then that perhaps her role then is to start praying for others and to start attending. In doing so, one speaks with more credibility and sets an example for others, and you start to be a part of the solution rather than the problem.
Be a part of the solution rather than the problem, beloved brothers and sisters. Just like you, I hate that there are many in the Church that make those in the LGBT community feel unloved, unwanted, and less-than. But let me clarify one thing… not every Christian is like this. There are a large group of Christians that are daily trying to take up their cross and to honor Christ in all that they do and how they live. They are loving others and praying for others. They are actively serving the LGBT community and dialoging with others and serving the less fortunate and preaching the truth about God… the amazing Gospel of Jesus Christ to others. In attacking the “Church”, you are also unintentionally attacking your very beloved brothers and sisters that have been a part of your Christian life and all those Saints that have come before you. By attacking the “Church”, I think we also reveal a poor understanding of what the Church is here for too.
So let me define Church in a very short brief explanation (off the top of my head)… the Church is a supernatural entity and gathering of God’s people for His purpose and plan from our time into eternity that will come to fruition and are linked by the life, death, resurrection, and promise of Jesus Christ. God’s people whether local or universal (“Catholic”), is the Church, and are given gifts to be used to bring about His glory and purpose. My Professor in Seminary, Dr. Tuck said that the church is: “the people of God, people of the light, the heavenly community and congregation.” We are the body that serves to bring about God’s plan and purpose, we are the body of CHRIST! Realize that the body of Christ needs grace just as much as the world does.
The funny thing is this, the Church, the people of God are NOT saved and being used because they are the Dream Team of good people; if anything it is because we really suck! It is exactly because of their inherent brokenness and flawed-ness that the Church is called to be Jesus’ hands and feet and voice to this world that is lost. It is taking the weak and the foolish and shaming the strong and the wise. God does not need us to do His work, but by His grace allows Christians to participate despite our inherent and apparent imperfection and hypocrisy. The irony is God can use the worst situations to bring about His greatest achievements; it is in doing so that humanity gets no credit and He gets all the glory. If the Church consisted of holy perfect people, then we would not be about Christ but ourselves. It is in this constant dependency and need that we constantly are seeking after God and crying out to Him for help.
Be a part of the solution rather than the problem, beloved brothers and sisters. Jesus did hang out with society’s rejects and losers. He also hung out with the popular and even super-religious folks. Do you have a Jesus’ words in red letter Bible? If so, then what you notice is this: Jesus in the words He spoke was filled with truth that was so beautiful and perfect and incredibly impossible to live up to apart from God; it had such holiness, power, and was without error. Yet if you look at Jesus’ life in the black letters (normal print), what you see is a Savior that was incredibly gracious and loving. He was patient with those that needed patience, and strong and firm to those that were self-righteous. The truth is: “Grace and truth came through Jesus Christ” (John 1:17b). Jesus was a perfection of both grace and truth lived out; He exemplified that paradox of being able to accomplish both.
The unfortunate reality is: we all desire to be both grace and truth and like all humanity we tend to swing like a pendulum overcompensating or undercompensating in our lives. We can be incredibly gracious and yet truth-less, and we can also be incredibility truthful and yet be grace-less. Either way is NOT Jesus because they are inherently flawed and may actually hinder others. Being gracious and loving without truth brings about nothing that Jesus did; He extolled the Scriptures… He did not come to abolish the Law that was given, but to fulfill them. Our righteousness needs to exceed even those of the religious people! Being truthful and Word-centered without grace brings about nothing that Jesus did either. Jesus perfectly loved His enemies and prayed for them as He died there on the cross at Calvary… He was perfect in His love as well.
You can’t have one without the other. Grace and Truth… and yet we each desire to find that balance. This is the Christian life inspired, guided, strengthened, reinforced and lived out daily until we are called home. If you profess to know Jesus Christ and show very little grace; you have missed the point. God is love, and in Jesus’ very act of submission and sacrifice… His life/death/resurrection exemplifies God’s love! If you profess to know Jesus Christ and show very little concern for God’s Word, His truth; you have missed the point. In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He is truth and He has brought about the Word to teach and show His Story!
If you disregard what the Word is teaching and saying, and sacrifice it all for “love” then you are NOT proclaiming the truth. You cannot have grace without the truth; and you cannot have truth without grace. When it is one or the other in extreme what you have is anti-nomianism, or legalism; it is an unhealthy imbalance. Either way is not what Jesus teaches and NOT how he lived! If you are not concerned with the inherent sin found in our world today that has been shown and addressed by God, then you are not seeing this world as God sees this world. It is the very case that God loves this world so much that He has sent Jesus to address this sin of this world. If one disregards this sin, then what was the point of Jesus’ life/death/resurrection?
Be a part of the solution rather than the problem, beloved brothers and sisters. The world does not need any more people hating on those that follow Jesus. The Bible already pointed out that there are folks that will do that and even kill Jesus’ followers, there is no need for more because if anything it reveals one’s own bitterness and hatred rather than truly helping the circumstances. Be a part of the solution… have you ever thought that perhaps your insight into God’s truth and how to love the LGBT community is an opportunity to educate rather than to accuse? Rather than pointing one’s finger, which is the problem, let’s be a part the solution by educating and setting an example for others. Prayerfully and by teaching and gaining the trust of those we love and desire to encourage, we patiently point out how to love and to dialogue with those that may be ignorant within our Churches.
Here’s the thing too… for those outside the Church, we have an opportunity to be part of the solution as well. We don’t walk into conversations and start fights with the truth, but as God is the Creator, let us be creative in how we display, share and interact with grace and truth to those in this world. In the same way, it is building relationships and trust and sharing with love and grace and showing them how a Christian is to be holy as He is holy; it is also sharing and telling others of the truths found in Scripture and sharing the Gospel (remember all Scripture is profitable for teaching/reproof/correction/training in righteousness). It is showing our less-than perfectness and showing that only Christ has brought about perfection and it is not our actions and works that result in this, but His grace alone. Let us not fight the world by the world’s ways, but through God’s way which is through love that is shown by both grace and truth. Let us always remember this.
Lastly, you will be persecuted for your position. You will demand truth and grace, but the world and even the church will perhaps only see one or the other. Be persecuted, but keep running the good race. Your life needs to continue to reflect His truth and grace, and your focus must be on Christ only. Your first and only allegiance needs to be the Lord. For others, you are called to love them and see God’s heart for them. It is through this then you are to manifest truth and grace. Remember, the Church consists of sinners, and yet, this is the community which Jesus Christ sacrificed His life for! God is somehow using this rag-tag bunch of folks to do His good work, and He loves them as well. Let us be a part of the solution rather than the problem; let us not condemn those in the body, but let us teach and encourage them to love and pray for others, and to value the word of God. Let us practice a balance of grace and truth. Grace and peace to you.